You see, I don’t know when it was that I stopped admiring you. That I knew you didn’t have all the answers after all. That you were not like the other mothers.
Slowly but surely, I woke up one day and realised that I resent you. It must’ve been after my first baby. You didn’t help me the way my friends mothers helped them, not physically or emotionally. All you said was “motherhood’s not easy” and dismissed me. And I can’t remember any time where you gave me helpful advice.
I know you had it rough, really rough and so I try to cut you some slack. Sometimes I feel mean for feeling these things, and even meaner for saying them out loud. I can’t help it. You are my biggest test and I really wish things were different. But this is the test that He chose for me, you and the rest of the troublesome family. This is it.
I look forward to jannah, where our relationship will be pure bliss. I don’t think I ever thought of being together in jannah until now. I guess maybe because jannah means happiness. Eternal bliss. But first we have to get through this. This life and these tests, your comments and remarks that make me want to yell and scream. But I will keep it together, although you make it hard. I will keep my mouth shut so that we can live beautifully in the afterlife.